Better Out Than In – The Art of The Freedom to Cry
Tuesday, September 8th, 2009
It would be anecdotal, and is certainly speculative on my part, but I would guess that the prevalence of diseases such as cancer is slightly higher among those who don’t allow themselves to cry when they feel the need to do so, compared to those who do. Cancer and what else? Depression? Heart disease? Relationship difficulties or breakdown? Entropy? We have developed a society which isn’t really comfortable with the idea of people – adults – crying, and particularly men.
Germany have just stunned the footballing world by beating favourties Argentina 4-0, and last week beat the English team 4-1, but I think the signs were there earlier, not necessarily in footballing terms, but in general approaches to work, and I remember back to the TV programme, Grand Designs, and the extraordinary approach of the German Huf Haus building teams.

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